Perhaps you’re someone who’s been looking forward to parties and presents, to lights and music as the weather has gotten colder and the nights get longer. Some of us will feel rushed off our feet, overwhelmed by all that needs to be prepared. Others may be feeling isolated and lonely, or apprehensive about the pressure to enjoy things and keep everyone happy.

It can be so hard to get the balance right at this time of year. December comes with a swirl of emotions and there is a risk that we just end up going through the motions on autopilot.

Jesus loved a party and for people to enjoy themselves. However, he was also quick to call out traditions when they were harmful or empty. The Jesus whose birth Christians celebrate on December 25th is the same man who said “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest,” and “Love God with all your heart, mind, body, and strength, and your neighbour as yourself.”

So, amongst all the busyness of this month, can I encourage you to take time to pay attention to yourselves, and to those around you. Prioritise quality time and love over the best or most expensive gifts. Find time for both company and quiet. The churches across Hucclecote have lots of opportunities for sharing company and would be overjoyed to show you the love of this season, whether you want to sing carols, share your worries, dress up as a shepherd, or find friendship and community.

May God bless you this month, and may you know how much you are loved.

By Rev. Dr. Joseph Mottram