Chaos and training
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”(Romans 8:28)
God is always good. The parsonages department at Lichfield decided that after 16 years in the Vicarage, I needed a new bathroom. Like many people in tied or rented houses – we are dependent on the landlord to renovate. As I write we are in the second week of having workmen in the house having made dust and noise. We are interested to see what the new walls and shower will look like, but anxious to get back to normal. Some helpful friends offered the use of their shower when we needed it.
We’re not used to this, and it has caused some feelings of being overwhelmed and frustrated. However, in these moments of chaos, we can find profound lessons about patience, faith, and reliance on God.
Disruptions can serve as a divine invitation to lean into our faith and discover deeper truths about ourselves and our relationship with God.
One of the most valuable lessons we can learn during a home renovation—or any disruption—is patience. When we’re faced with the noise and mess of construction, it forces us to pause and reflect. We might not have our usual comforts, but we can take this time to deepen our prayer life, read Scripture, and engage in meaningful conversations with family members. Each moment of inconvenience becomes an opportunity to practice patience and trust in God’s timing.
In the midst of disruption, it’s essential to find joy. Nehemiah 8:10 (NIV) teaches us, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” Even when the shower is out of commission and the kitchen feels like a construction site, we can choose to find joy in the little things, a warm cup of tea, a moment of laughter, or a shared meal.
Consider the biblical account of Paul and Silas, who sang hymns while imprisoned (Acts 16:25). Their joy in the middle of suffering not only uplifted their spirits but also led to the conversion of the jailer. Our joyful attitude during times of disruption can be a powerful testimony to others.
Disruptions often highlight our dependence on God. Philippians 4:19 (NIV) reassures us, “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” When we lack our usual conveniences, we can turn our focus toward God, recognizing that our true needs—peace, comfort, joy—come from Him.
As we navigate the challenges of even minor inconveniences, like home transformations, we are reminded to rely on God’s provision. Whether it’s finding creative solutions for daily needs or simply taking a moment to pray, our dependence on God becomes crystal clear.
Living through disruptions can be challenging, but they also serve as potent reminders of God’s presence in our lives. By embracing patience, finding joy, and learning to depend on Him, we can transform the chaos of life into a spiritual journey.
Times that are worse will come, and if we have taken every opportunity to train our spirits to cope well with minor inconveniences, we will be much better able to deal with terrible emergencies.
Remember that, like the builders in our home, God is at work, shaping us into the people He desires us to be. So, the next time you find yourself in a state of disruption, pause and seek the lessons God has in store for you. After all, even in the mess, He is crafting something beautiful.
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” (James 1:2-4)
Brian Leathers September 2025