Dear Friends

That great British talking point of the weather is on most folks’ lips at the beginning of 2025 and, unless everything changes, our small part of the country seems to be less affected than most. Our village pubs didn’t have to entertain customers for four days because the roads were impassable, nor did they quietly host an unexpected Royal guest caught in a blizzard*. Exciting for a few days, and we read that people have forged friendships they expect to last a lifetime.

There are many well-known friendships that go down in history but let’s start with Wallace and Gromit, or Han Solo and Chewbacca who have a friendly bond that spans galaxies**. Then there is Vincent van Gogh and Paul Gaugin whose bond went beyond mere friendship; they collaborated and shared artistic exploration that has impacted the world of art for generations.

We make friends as we go through life, some who come and go, but some remain as an important part of our life long after they have departed. A friend made on our first day at school or at work, or a friend met when sitting beside each other on the bus. A lifelong friend can come into our life at an older age but remain one until the end. It can take months to realise that a friendship is forming, or it can be an immediate mutual liking. A friend listens to you, is honest with you, is by your side when you need them most, accepts you just as you are and always wants the best for you. “When other friendships have been forgot, ours will still be hot” wrote Cole Porter, and that’s what we al hope for.

Of course, as a Christian, I can say all that is true of Jesus Christ who fulfils all the criteria of friendship but with an extra: for he did lay down his life for us. Friendships are to be made in our community whenever we come together for social events, or when you might meet someone who you might see often, but to whom you have never said more than, “Hello”. That’s when you can invest some time, get to know someone and the more you know, the more a friendship may grow.

Reading of Jesus in the New Testament of the Bible we can get to know Him better and that may give us a whole new friendship for life.

Bye for now.

Ruth Bond (Licensed Lay Minister)

*Queen Elizabeth II, 1981 in Gloucestershire. ** Star Wars pilot and first mate