Church of England Diocese of Manchester Newton Heath

Ways to pray if you have to stay away

All Saints’ Newton Heath

Ways to Pray if you can’t get to Church

Prayer Resources for when you can’t get to church or for use at home

(A printable pdf booklet is available at the foot of the page.  Print back-to-back or staple and the pagination as it appears on screen will make sense)


Simple Forms of Prayer

Lighting a candle before you pray can help you to focus and listen.

Jesus taught us the Lord’s Prayer so that we would always have words to say. Use it!

The “Examen”. Don’t let the name put you off! This is a very simple way to prayerfully review your day with God in five steps:

1. Become aware of God’s presence, or ask God to help you remember he’s there with you.

2. Review the day with gratitude (as best you can!)

3. Pay attention to how you’re feeling about it.

4. Choose one feature of the day and pray about it.

5. Look toward tomorrow. What do you expect the day to hold? Ask God to help you remember he’s with you.

Lectio Divina.

If this is new to you, don’t let the name put you off. Lectio helps you to read the Bible in a prayerful way. Pick a short passage of Scripture (it can be anything you like, but if you’re stuck, parables of Jesus or the shorter Psalms are a good choice). Read it through, slowly, two or three times. Notice what jumps out at you, and ask yourself, what is God saying to me here? Reflect on this for a few minutes. Then, read the passage again. Now ask yourself, what do I want to say to God? - then say it. Lastly, sit quietly and know that God is with you.

Some Collects and Other Prayers to Say

Sovereign God, the defence of those who trust in you and the strength of those who suffer: look with mercy on our affliction and deliver us through our mighty Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen. O God, our sovereign and our shepherd, who brought again your Son Jesus Christ from the valley of death, comfort us with your protecting presence and your angels of goodness and love, that we also may come home and dwell with him in your house for ever. Amen.

Lord God, whose Son, Jesus Christ, understood people's fear and pain before they spoke of them, we pray for those in hospital or sick at home; surround the frightened with your tenderness; give strength to those in pain; hold the weak in your arms of love, and give hope and patience to those who are recovering; we ask this through the same Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Almighty God, you see that we have no power of ourselves to help ourselves: keep us both outwardly in our bodies, and inwardly in our souls; that we may be defended from all adversities which may happen to the body, and from all evil thoughts which may assault and hurt the soul; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

A prayer of confession:

Father eternal, giver of light and grace, we have sinned against you and against our neighbour, in what we have thought, in what we have said and done, through ignorance, through weakness, through our own deliberate fault. We have wounded your love and marred your image in us. We are sorry and ashamed and repent of all our sins. For the sake of your Son Jesus Christ, who died for us, forgive us all that is past and lead us out from darkness to walk as children of light. Amen

The collect for purity/ prayer of preparation:

Almighty God, to whom all hearts are open, all desires known, and from whom no secrets are hidden: cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of your Holy Spirit, that we may perfectly love you, and worthily magnify your holy name; through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Other useful prayers

God be in my head, and in my understanding; God be in my eyes, and in my looking; God be in my mouth, and in my speaking; God be in my heart, and in my thinking; God be at mine end, and at my departing. Amen

Prayers before sleeping:

Be present, O merciful God, and protect us through the silent hours of this night, so that we who are wearied by the changes and chances of this fleeting world, may rest upon your eternal changelessness; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Abide with us, Lord, for it is evening, and day is drawing to a close. Abide with us and with your whole Church, in the evening of the day, in the evening of life, in the evening of the world; abide with us and with all your faithful ones, O Lord, in time and in eternity. Amen.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, who at this evening hour lay in the tomb and so hallowed the grave to be a bed of hope for all who put their trust in you: give us such sorrow for our sins, which were the cause of your passion, that when our bodies lie in the dust, our souls may live with you forever. Amen.

Sometimes sitting in silence can be a powerful way to pray. Ask the Holy Spirit to lead you.


A Form of Prayer During the Day

This is a form of prayer, sometimes called an ‘office’, which you can use on its own, or use to expand your daily ‘quiet time’ with the Bible. You should always say a Psalm, but you could use a different scheme. The simplest is to work through the Book of Psalms using a Psalm a day (perhaps splitting some of them).

When saying this office alone, say both the parts in plain and in bold.

O God, make speed to save us.

O Lord, make haste to help us.

My heart tells of your word, ‘Seek my face.’

Your face, Lord, will I seek.

Praise - you could sing a hymn, listen to music, or say

We praise you, O God, we acclaim you as the Lord; all creation worships you, the Father everlasting. To you all angels, all the powers of heaven, the cherubim and seraphim, sing in endless praise: Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might, heaven and earth are full of your glory.

Read a Psalm (two week cycle) 

Your first week:

Sunday 119.1-32

Monday 119.33-56

Tuesday 119.57-80

Wednesday 119.81-104

Thursday 119.105-128

Friday 119.129-152

Saturday 119.153-end

Your second week:

Sunday 121, 122

Monday 123, 124

Tuesday 125, 126

Wednesday 127

Thursday 128

Friday 129, 130

Saturday 131, 133

End the Psalm with:

Glory to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit; as it was in the beginning is now and shall be for ever. Amen.

Bible Readings examples

Sunday: Revelation 21.1-4,

Monday: Isaiah 49.1b-4,

Tuesday: Deuteronomy 28.1-6,

Wednesday: Matthew 9.35-end,

Thursday: John 17.18-23,

Friday: Luke 9.22-25,

Saturday: John 11.17–26a. 

Intercessions:

Pray for the Church, the world, and for individuals.

After which this, or another collect is said:

O Lord our God, grant us grace to desire you with our whole heart; that so desiring, we may seek and find you; and so finding, may love you; and so loving, may hate those sins from which you have delivered us; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Lord’s Prayer is said.

May God who made both heaven and earth bless us.

Amen.



A Prayer for Assurance of Christ’s Presence

(“An Act of Spiritual Communion”)

Begin with the Collect for Purity (above), and then read the Gospel for Sunday, or another appropriate passage of Scripture (e.g. John 14: 1-7).

Examine your heart and confess your sins to God, using your own words or the prayer of confession above, and then say

The Almighty and merciful Lord, grant me pardon and absolution of all my sins. Amen.

Then say

In union, O Lord with the faithful at every altar of your Church, where the Holy Eucharist is celebrated, I desire to offer you praise and thanksgiving. I present to you my soul and body with the earnest wish that I may always be united to you. And since I cannot now receive you sacramentally, I ask you to come spiritually into my heart. I unite myself to you, and embrace you with all the affections of my soul. Let nothing ever separate you from me. May I live and die in your love. Amen.

You might like to sit in silence for a while. Finish your time of prayer by saying the Lord’s Prayer.

(“The Armed Forces Prayerbook” (The Episcopal Church USA), 1951, adapted). 


Adapted with thanks to The North Wakefield Benefice and The Revd Dr Jo Kershaw

(Texts Sources: Common Worship/ The Church of England Liturgical Commission) 

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